Why toddlers bite?

19 de November de 2024

Why do toddlers bite? Causes, Solutions and Tips for Parents

If you find yourself in a situation where your toddler starts biting other children or even you, you are probably feeling worried and puzzled. Don’t worry, biting is a common behaviour in young children, especially those who are exploring the world around them. But why do children bite in the first place? It is essential to understand that biting is a form of communication for them. In many instances, it is their way of expressing emotions or needs that they cannot yet verbalise.

Young children are in a continuous process of learning and development. When communicating, they often do not find the right words to express what they feel. Biting is a direct and physical way of expressing frustration, anger, excitement or even curiosity. Therefore, although it may appear to be an aggressive behaviour, it is deeply rooted in their attempts to interact with and understand their environment.

In addition, the context in which it occurs can offer valuable clues. Observing when and where it happens can help identify the underlying causes and offer opportunities to address and redirect this behaviour in a positive way.

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The Causes of Chewing Behaviour in Young Children

There are several reasons why children may develop a chewing habit. One of the most common causes is oral exploration. From the time they are babies, they use their mouths to explore and learn about their environment. It is an early way of learning about the objects and people around them.

Other times, biting can be a way to relieve pain, especially during the teething period. Molars and other teething teeth can cause significant discomfort, and biting objects, toys or even their caregivers can provide some pain relief.

We should not forget that intense emotions also play a major role in this behaviour. Frustration and stress are difficult emotions for young children to deal with, and biting can be a way for them to release that tension. They may not know how to express their anger or sadness verbally and may resort to biting as a way of channelling those feelings.

How to Respond Effectively to Biting

How we respond as adults to a child’s bite can make a big difference in how this behaviour develops. First and foremost, stay calm. Reacting with anger or frustration can only increase the child’s stress and confusion.

An effective strategy is to teach alternatives to biting. For example, if you observe that the child is biting out of frustration, help him or her find words to express what he or she is feeling. Simple phrases such as ‘you are angry’ or ‘you want that toy’ can be helpful. You can also offer a pillow or a suitable object to bite instead of people.

In addition, reinforcing positive behaviour can be very beneficial. Praise your child when he or she uses words or gestures instead of biting. This not only reduces biting over time, but also teaches them valuable communication skills that they will carry throughout their lives.

Preventing Biting Behaviour

Preventing children from biting can be a challenge, but there are strategies that can help. Observing patterns is key. If you notice biting occurring at specific times, such as during play or before meals, there may be specific triggers you can manage.

Keeping children busy with activities that interest and stimulate them mentally can reduce biting incidents. Bored or unstimulated children are more likely to act impulsively. Providing a variety of toys and activities can keep them focused and distracted from unwanted actions.

In addition, teaching social skills from an early age is crucial. Modelling appropriate behaviours and practising social scenarios with them can help reduce the need for biting as a form of communication. Showing them how to share, take turns and resolve conflicts peacefully can have a significant impact.

When to Be Concerned and Seek Professional Help

While biting is common in young children, there are times when this behaviour may signal the need for additional help. If a child continues to bite at an age when he or she should have outgrown this behaviour or shows other signs of emotional distress, it may be time to consult a professional.

A number of factors, such as major life changes, family stress or even developmental disorders, can influence this persistent behaviour. Consulting a child psychologist or developmental specialist can provide a more detailed and appropriate approach to dealing with the problem.

There is no shame in seeking help. Professionals are trained to understand and address complicated behaviours. Getting specific guidance and strategies can make a big difference in the life of the child and the family as a whole.

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FAQs

¿Cómo puedo enseñar a mi hijo a no morder?

Enseñar a un niño a no morder requiere paciencia y consistencia. Comienza por modelar el comportamiento apropiado. Usa frases simples para explicarle que morder hace daño y ofrece alternativas, como usar palabras para expresar sus emociones. Refuerza positivamente cuando observe que su hijo elige estas alternativas y mantén una comunicación constante para ayudarle a entender por qué morder no es aceptable.

¿Es normal que mi hijo muerda a otros niños en la guardería?

Sí, es absolutamente normal que los niños muerdan en entornos como la guardería. Están explorando cómo interactuar con sus compañeros y a veces sus emociones pueden ser abrumadoras. Comunicación frecuente con los cuidadores de la guardería puede ayudar a identificar patrones y trabajar juntos en estrategias para manejar y reducir las mordeduras.

¿Debería preocuparme si mi hijo sigue mordiendo después de los tres años?

Si el comportamiento de morder persiste después de los tres años, puede ser prudente explorar más a fondo las causas subyacentes. A veces, este comportamiento puede estar ligado a factores emocionales o del desarrollo que necesitan ser atendidos por un profesional. Una evaluación temprana y una intervención adecuada pueden ofrecer las herramientas necesarias para superar este obstáculo.